Sunday, June 24, 2012

What A Day

This is the kind of day it was: 

90 degrees. The air conditioning dies.  
One hour later. The healthy car bleeds burning oil.
Then, the bank account. Don't even get me started on that.

It is tempting to shout at the skies: What else! Why us!  Why now!
Curse this day!
And, yet.  We know.

This is the day that the LORD has made.

Chaos presses, but it is exhausted.  
Panic pushes, but it is diffused.  
The clouds gather, the lightning flashes, the waves crash.

But we know their Father.

We will not wallow in the thrashing waves.
Or cling desperately to the sinking ship.
Or question the one sleeping at the helm.


We will step out onto the water.

The water that churns, seethes, rages--
Its white caps crashing with terrifying force.

None of that matters.

For we are given grace to do the impossible: 
On water.
And so that's what we do.

It is only later that we realize: 

We have out-walked the storms.

Tuesday, June 05, 2012

The Guest Room Closets

The space between committing and acting is called stressing.  And this is where you find yourself.  Stressing about the one who, in a couple of short weeks, will step on an airplane, cross a continent and an ocean, and land on your doorstep.  A stranger.

A twelve year old stranger: dimpled, cute, alone in the world. Yet somehow, strangely intimidating. Not him, really. Just the thought of him. Of him and his stranger-ness. And you and your not-enough-ness.

You don't know what to do with yourself and the only thing you can think of is to go dig around in the dark abyss of your guest room closets and start making some room for this dear child.  You know he will need space, and that is just about all that you know.  You root around for a few minutes and discover your old Wii and Playstation video game systems that are collecting dust, and you realize that there isn't a twelve year old boy alive who wouldn't love them.

You realize you have something.

Encouraged, you continue. And as you pour through the buried contents of the guest room closets--a veritable asylum for all that is forgotten, all that is unnecesary to daily living--you find some of your greatest treasures: Your wedding invitations.  Your husband's photo albums from his childhood. The baby quilt you painstakingly stitched atop your nine month swollen belly in the days before your first child was born. You find old birthday cards and letters from friends near and mostly far. You find notes of thanks from favorite students--students who were twelve, dimpled, and cute, you remember. Children who you loved and cared for and thought of, in some strange way, as yours for the brief time you had them.

You realize that you have something else.

Digging now with enthusiasm, you spy something hard and black and plastic at the bottom of the clutter and see that it is your husband's violin case. Nestled inside the cheap blue velvet lining is the small violin that has known your husband's soul much longer than you have. It is the one that is the subject of his parents' favorite story of how your husband, at age ten, decided he would play the violin even though there was no orchestra. And how that husband took lessons every week though the teacher lived an hour away, and how that husband learned and got good and played in a youth orchestra another hour away that eventually took him around the world to play in the Sydney Opera House.  And, years later, to stand before family and friends and all who were important and play a song for his blushing bride--just because she asked him to. And you love that story because you love how the man you married is willing to sacrifice for things that don't seem important to most people because he can see their inherent worth, their potential.

And you realize that you have enough.

You stand and stare at the guest room closet, now empty. And at the floor of the guest room, now strewn with the pieces of your life. And you step back and you realize that this is all you need: a life. A life worth sharing.

Well, that and an empty closet.

And now you have both.


This summer, our family is hosting an orphan child from the Ukraine for 5 weeks through an orphan hosting program called Homes of Hope International. If you would like to find out more info, visit their website at or ask me about it!